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Struggle kya hai..isko aap kaise define kr skte hain??? Is question ka answer vary krega person to person.. kabhi puch k dekhiye us insan se jo apni sard raat foothpath pe bitata hai…uske liye struggle bs itna hai ki kisi tarah ye raat or kat jaae…kahi saansein aaj ki is sard raat me hi na tham jae… Or agr aap yhi question us insaan se puchege jo apne AC room me ek comfortable bed pe leta hua hai..uske liye struggle ye h ki aaj raat bina sleeping pills k neend aa jae…

Toh basically is word ke meanings bht saare hain.. bht hi zyada.. But ek chiz jo sbke struggle  me common hai wo hota attitude… When something is troubling us ..and how we take it..that attitude defines what we really are.

When we are put into that disturbing struggling situation then we evolve into our true colors… Smile toh koi bhi fake kr skta hai… but that attitude …when we are dealing with something really messy cant be faked…

Chaliye iss bat ko ek example k through smjhte hain…aapke hath me mug hai or us mug me coffee hai..suddenly aapse koi takra jata hai.. wo coffee mug se bahr fail jaegi..agr aapke mug k andr chai hoti toh chai failti ..so basicaaly job hi aapke mug me hota ..wahi bahr aata so meaning jb bahr ki situation.. struggles aapko pareshan krte hain…or jo aapke andr se nikl k aata hai..that is real you..agr bahr ki stuation se pareshan hoke..hum gussa krte hai..if we are verbally abusing ..it means we are like that only…

Toh life is basically is  other name of struggle…isliye hme pareshan nhi hona hain usse..or na hi in struggles…situations ko allow krna hai to stir ourselves… rather hme wait krna hai..sahi time ka..look everyone has its own timing…or you know one thing kabhi kabhi hmare struggles hmko sirf isliye zyada lgne lgte hain…because hm compare krne lgte hain…

The main reason why we struggle more because we compare our behind the scenes with someone else’s highlighted reel

Jo insan aaj hme bht khush bht successful lg rha hai…usne bhi na jane kitni hi defeats dekhi hongi…but nhi hm un 100 haar ko nhi sirf 1 jeet ko dekhte hain.

Problem yhi se shuru hoti hai jab hum apni life ki timing ko trust nhi krte impatient hone lgte hain..hme lgta hai..ab bs bht ho gya..or ye sb sochke hm apni life k struggles ko or bdha lete hain…

So there is an absolutely delightful quote by Edwin Markham …

For all your days be prepared, and meet them ever alike.

When you are the anvil…… bear –

when you are the hammer……strike.

Toh bs itna hi kehna hai..ki kabhi kabhi hum jab coffee peete hai..complaint krte rehte hain ki it is not sweet..we literally struggle over that one mug..but kya hota hai…last me hme mug me sugar dikhti hai..so this is life..always sweetened ..sometimes just not stirred well

Toh hmara struggle sirf itna hai ki wo mithaas jo ki already exist krti hai hmari life me usse ghol le…naki complaint krte rahe..

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Vijaylaxmi
Vijaylaxmi
10 months ago

Behatreen 👍

Anchal Verma
Anchal Verma
10 months ago

True👍👍