When someone ask you the question who are You? Your answer be like ..I am an engineer , I am a doctor or I am an entrepreneur .
So see whatever we achieve we define us by those achievements, or the things that we could not achieve become our identity. So this world see nothing above that and slowly with time we also start believing that our identity is only define by our achievements.And over time we also assume that we are what the world think of us.
We also believe that we are the way the world is saying and at last we get irritated by our version which the world ..the society has created . We doubt ourselves ..our capabilities and what not. So how to get out from his hell and how to know that exactly who you are…
Ok so here I am presenting an example which I have read in a book. Suppose if someone says your hair is green .
Would you mind ? will you get angry? Of course not because you know that your hair is not green, it is black. Then why do get angry or depressed when someone question your identity and capabilities . Now the the next question what if the colour of your hair is really green ..what if the people are saying true.Then its your choice you have to ask yourself a question are you comfortable in that green hair if yes then there is no need to get angry and depressed, and if you are not comfortable then dye it black with time. Ok so the point is only we know what we are and what we not . so why we have given the society this kind of power to make us the person who we are not, why we let them make us believe that we are weak, incapable,When we are rock strong. And in any case we lack something so its our duty to either make ourselves comfortable in that way or with time change ourselves the way we want, so next time if anyone asks you..Who are You?? Think and respond